I hate bullying! oh yea i said the content out. This is a post to vent out my rage and irritation that is due to the people who think it is their right to play with others emotions buy Bullying them! yea right that's the word of the article 'BULLYING'. People who do it find it funny, they feel it is a fun activity but fail to understand how badly it might hurt others. They are the most inhumane people who deserve no respect in my opinion.
Having fun does not mean insulting someone. If you can not find a way to keep yourself happy without digging a hole into someones heart with your hot iron drills made of poky words then there is certainly something wrong with you, your life! Who knows, may be you don't have a life! May be that is how you conceal your boring life from the world and try to look cool in the process. I wish people understood that fun happens to lie in spreading it around by infecting people with smile, by spreading happiness and not by making a laughing stock out of people who mean no harm to anyone. They are soft to you does not mean they are weak. They probably have better things in life to pursue than do to you what you are doing to them. Is all the negativity worth the like minded bully friends you get to join hands with to target more innocent souls due to this? Can we realize that, that is all is left at the end! a generation of bullies which is only going to make the world worse...
It hurts to see that today we have reached a point where people are often busy bringing others down to lift themselves up instead of trying to work on their skills to rise up. Can we as a whole try to at least teach our next generation the seriousness of this issue and make them a bully free generation? Make them understand how bad it is to be going through all that so that they don't even attempt to put someone in that situation...It is not as simple an issue as it looks, it is a huge responsibility as it can alter the whole personality of a person in a very negative way, specially for kids if they go through this filth at a tender age they might never forget the trauma faced and this will either make them a bully who in turn will be revengeful about it and hurt others or will be afraid to open up because of the fear of being harassed.
So, please spread love and stop criticizing, judging, bullying people for your pleasure!!!!!
Having fun does not mean insulting someone. If you can not find a way to keep yourself happy without digging a hole into someones heart with your hot iron drills made of poky words then there is certainly something wrong with you, your life! Who knows, may be you don't have a life! May be that is how you conceal your boring life from the world and try to look cool in the process. I wish people understood that fun happens to lie in spreading it around by infecting people with smile, by spreading happiness and not by making a laughing stock out of people who mean no harm to anyone. They are soft to you does not mean they are weak. They probably have better things in life to pursue than do to you what you are doing to them. Is all the negativity worth the like minded bully friends you get to join hands with to target more innocent souls due to this? Can we realize that, that is all is left at the end! a generation of bullies which is only going to make the world worse...
It hurts to see that today we have reached a point where people are often busy bringing others down to lift themselves up instead of trying to work on their skills to rise up. Can we as a whole try to at least teach our next generation the seriousness of this issue and make them a bully free generation? Make them understand how bad it is to be going through all that so that they don't even attempt to put someone in that situation...It is not as simple an issue as it looks, it is a huge responsibility as it can alter the whole personality of a person in a very negative way, specially for kids if they go through this filth at a tender age they might never forget the trauma faced and this will either make them a bully who in turn will be revengeful about it and hurt others or will be afraid to open up because of the fear of being harassed.
So, please spread love and stop criticizing, judging, bullying people for your pleasure!!!!!
Very nice, very informative and indeed this is what happening in this society. Good effort and appreciative.
ReplyDeleteThank you Nagaraju :) yes this is something we often overlook every single day but indeed a serious issue and needs attention.
DeleteCompletely agree.
ReplyDeleteGood to see people who think alike! :)
DeleteIndeed the need of the hour.. Shruti..I totally agree with your thoughts and do feel the urgency in the current situation of the society..we do need people to come forward and curb this disease roots from our world to live happily with smile all around......
ReplyDeleteYes Vipin., sooner the better!
DeleteIndeed the need of the hour..Shruti..let's come together and curb this social disease which exists in our society to make this world a best place to live in and spread happiness and love all around......
ReplyDeleteNailed it! We have all seen examples of these, dare to say been recipient of it too. But people who actually support this saying it's friendly banter are the ones more gulty I would say. They just encourage these peopl to believe that what they are doing is right and funny and harmless amd they can come off as strong and manly or whatever. There's a thin line between making of someone harmlessly and seriously hurting them while trying to be funny. People should realise that. I feel both the offenders and supporters need help, need awareness otherwise this won't be eradicated from society. You can try to be "Kool" but not at the expense of others.
ReplyDeleteits actually taken very lightly and that is a bigger issue... we have spoken a lot on this isnt it?
DeleteYes but nothing came out of it. It seemed people got bored of it and moved on to new things. But that mindset of feeling entertained while hurting others is still there on a large scale.
Delete100% agree with you.....it's insane..inhuman to bully someone....
ReplyDeleteA perfect topic.....with perfect anger for such people..can just hope after reading this they will stop it...
Thank you Pravesh yes i too hope people learn
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ReplyDeleteWorth reading!! nicely written.. You have actually explained.. the kind of excruciating situation one has to experience while becoming a victim of bullying... in such a lucid way.. Actually those who bully possess an inherent defect of inability to appreciate the beauty in others imperfections.. And accept the way others are.. Instead they choose to denigrate other's weaknesses in a ruthless way.. Being quiet is not a remedy.. Those all, who are humiliated at times need to stand and speak up!!
ReplyDeleteWell said!!!!!
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