BFF, Best Friend Forever...heard this term?? very common right, but wait is it true that some one who is your BEST FRIEND at one point of time remains so FOREVER? If you say yes, YES not just for the sake of saying but truly mean it then you are one blessed person on The Earth. What is the thing that makes only ONE friend from many get this BFF status? There is some kind of magical bond in it that surpasses all the evil things like jealousy, ego...you trust them the most and receive the same trust in return...it is selfless, it doesn't depend on looks, status of either of them, but ,just the inner self. It is some one with whom you share the strongest bond of friendship. Calling or messaging at any time of the day is never an issue, you get scolding for saying 'Thank you' or 'sorry' and taunts for being too formal, but everyone loves all this...
Fine that was about a best friend, but my question is: Is this permanent?? When we say nothing other than change is permanent in this world, how can this be?? Even this changes, and just short separation is enough for that to happen and sometimes just happens because you have found some one who you feel is a better friend, and don't even bother about the first one who was with you at all times when you needed them....but it hurts a lot when this happens, even if it breaks, it would hurt for a while but then it'll be fine, its worse when that person who was the BFF at one point of time becomes a JUST FRIEND
kills every time you think about the times you were together...but that is life, and it has to go on...
Fine that was about a best friend, but my question is: Is this permanent?? When we say nothing other than change is permanent in this world, how can this be?? Even this changes, and just short separation is enough for that to happen and sometimes just happens because you have found some one who you feel is a better friend, and don't even bother about the first one who was with you at all times when you needed them....but it hurts a lot when this happens, even if it breaks, it would hurt for a while but then it'll be fine, its worse when that person who was the BFF at one point of time becomes a JUST FRIEND
kills every time you think about the times you were together...but that is life, and it has to go on...
best friend is ok... but best friend forever concept is false!! i had a bff and aftr she got commitd she stoppd talkin to me :P ....guess her bf cud nt understand the golden concept of 'friendship'!!.... and she also told watever i tol her to her bf and the moment i came to know that i realized that the friendship has died!!.... u c sum ppl cnt maintain relations!!.. and they dunno hw to!!.... but i hav another bff but that chap is in hostel n no proper contact!!
ReplyDeletebtw nice post!!..... same thing happened to me!!.... i hav heard many sanskrit sayings telling us that nothing is permanent in this world!!.... but we are not robots!... to delete someone from our memory!... we have to experience everything in life!!.... cos dis is lyf!
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@Blaze yes, there are people who don't understand...its not their fault either. This is life...we have to take it as it comes :)
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